Saturday, January 10, 2009

My Myers-Briggs Personality Type=)

The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) assessment is a psychometric questionnaire designed to measure psychological preferences in how people perceive the world and make decisions. I took MBTI from Humanmetrics.com and Similarminds.com

My personality type is INFJ (introversion, intuition, feeling, perception).
  • I – Introversion preferred to Extraversion: INFJs tend to be quiet and reserved. They generally prefer interacting with a few close friends rather than a wide circle of acquaintances, and they expend energy in social situations (whereas extraverts gain energy).
  • N – Intuition preferred to Sensing: INFJs tend to focus on the "big picture" rather than the details, and the future rather than the "here and now."
  • F – Feeling preferred to Thinking: INFJs tend to rely on a personal, internal sense of right and wrong rather than external, objective criteria. When making decisions, they often give more weight to feelings and social considerations than to logic.
  • J – Judgment preferred to Perception: INFJs tend to plan their activities and make decisions early. They derive a sense of control through predictability, which to perceptive types may seem limiting.
Characteristics of INFJs

INFJs are conscientious and value-driven. They seek meaning in relationships, ideas, and events, with an eye toward better understanding themselves and others. Using their intuitive skills, they develop a clear vision, which they then execute decisively to better the lives of others. Like their INTJ counterparts, INFJs regard problems as opportunities to design and implement creative solutions.

INFJs are quiet, private individuals who prefer to exercise their influence behind the scenes. Although very independent, INFJs are intensely interested in the well-being of others. INFJs prefer one-on-one relationships to large groups. Sensitive and complex, they are adept at understanding complicated issues and driven to resolve differences in a cooperative and creative manner.

Accounting for 1–3% of the population, INFJs have a rich, vivid inner life, which they may be reluctant to share with those around them. Nevertheless, they are congenial in their interactions, and perceptive of the emotions of others. Generally well-liked by their peers, they may often be considered close friends and confidants by most other types. However, they are guarded in expressing their own feelings, especially to new people, and so tend to establish close relationships slowly. INFJs tend to be easily hurt, though they may not reveal this except to their closest companions. INFJs may "silently withdraw as a way of setting limits," rather than expressing their wounded feelings. This behavior may leave others confused and upset.

INFJs tend to be sensitive, quiet leaders with a great depth of personality. They are intricately and deeply woven, mysterious, and highly complex, sometimes puzzling even to themselves. They have an orderly view toward the world, but are internally arranged in a complex way that only they could understand. Abstract in communicating, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. With a natural affinity for art, INFJs tend to be creative and easily inspired. Yet they may also do well in the sciences, aided by their intuition.

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Frustrated?Disappointed??

Earlier today my ex-bf and I had an argument regarding life..
religion, superstition, phenomena, blah blah blah..
His point of view regarding life is quite extreme..
i believe not everything could be explained by science but he thinks that almost everything can be proven by science..he believes that there r many things such as God and phenomena that has yet been proven by science..
to say God could be proven by science is quite extreme and honestly,i dont know whether its possible to be proven..
even if God could be proven indeed,i dont think it could happen in this era and age..
therefore,most ppl on this earth still believe in religion..
no doubt,there is something skeptic regarding religion such as the story of how humans exist eg.Adam and Eve..instead of evolutionary theory..
but i got no idea how the heck can God be proven by science??:(
Not to say his opinions on life is wrong but i think its still not ready to be accepted by the society yet..
in fact,i think ur views is not totally wrong and there is some logic in it..
but im not saying that ur views r wrong so u r not supposed to say tht mine is wrong either..
as long as my opinion has yet to br proven right and urs has yet to be proven too,nobody's opinions r wrong..
so why not just let things be this way..u believe ur opinion and i believe in mine..

seriously,i have no prob with our 'intellectual difference' and i could accept u as who u r..
i have seen many couples who have far more serious prob in their relationship but they still could work out and remain satisfied in their relationship..
but if u believe that this 'intellectual difference' is one of the main issue in our relationship, well then i wish u good luck and find a more intelligent and better girl who shares ur point of view:S
i tried my best but no matter wat,im so sorry i still couldnt understand u:(
i dont regret loving u as i have tried my best but sadly im just not up to ur expectation..
sorry,as disappointed and frustrated as u r,im just not good enough for u..:(
so i wish u luck to find a better soulmate in the future...peace..